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10 Life Lessons On How To Find Your Why NOW & Achieve Ultimate Success – Introduction (2 of 2)

September 16, 2010 by  
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I am blessed to deliver my messages to audiences around the globe and meet thousands of wonderful people but I’ve noticed something that deeply disturbs me every time that I speak. Many of the event attendees continually go from seminars to conferences to conventions investing thousands of dollars in personal development materials yet NEVER achieve the results that they desire in their lives. It breaks my heart to see good people striving to reach their goals and dreams but end up failing time and time again. Why does this happen? These champions simply don’t have the vehicle to get them to where
they want to go in life.

Now, I ask you to be totally honest with yourself. Have you ever been in a situation where you seemed to have a life-changing breakthrough, but you eventually just fell back in the same, unchanged, unproductive habits? Didn’t it frustrate you to invest your precious time and your hard-earned money without getting the results that you desired? I’ve got good news for you! It can be so easy to achieve what you desire deep in your heart, and you can do it without wasting anymore of your time and your money. This is the vehicle that I’ve been referring to that will catapult you to success.

The secret that I will share in this book is not known by the general public. They don’t know it, because we live in a fast paced, microwave society that suffers information overload. We want everything quick and easy in which we end up skimming over new information – even information that can save our life!It’s like a rock skipping across a pond that eventually sinks without ever reaching its destination What I have to share with you has made thousands worldwide wake up and rethink their lives.

Decide today to make an appointment with yourself and this book. Don’t laugh. We all need to treat ourselves with as much respect as we treat others with whom we make appointments. This is your life that we’re talking about! Have enough respect for yourself and your future to schedule quality time – with no cell phones, email or other distractions – in order to carve out a brand new life and path to success. This powerful magic force that you are about to unlock will only work for you when you give it some time to release all of its explosive power. Time is the most valuable currency we have. That’s right. Nothing else in all of life has the value of time. You must be willing to invest time in your quest from where you are now to a life full of abundance. Do you truly want to live your dreams and achieve your goals? This is a question that only you can answer. If your answer is “yes”, then read this book. But, only when you have made an appointment with yourself and your destiny!

17 Highly-Guarded Strategies to Close Every Sale – Strategy #9: An Offensive Mindset Versus a Defensive Mindset (2 of 2)

August 27, 2010 by  
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There are many people that I meet at seminars, but many of them never “do business” with me that particular day. I don’t huff and puff about their decision not to invest in my products and services. That’s fine, because I believe in creating long-term relationships. I believe in the near future, they will invest in one of my product or services. Maybe they become a member of the Lifestyle Freedom Club, attend a boot camp or hire me to do a motivational seminar for their company. I handled that initial rejection of my products and services appropriately and welcomed them to tie into my emails, tele-classes, etc., which led to their investment at a later date. Creating long-term relationships despite not closing that initial sale is a huge part of maintaining an offensive mindset.

What if I would have responded with a defensive mindset? “I don’t need their money anyway. I would rather keep my products, because they aren’t going to use them.” The chances of that person tying into my company resources and investing at a later date just flew out the door. Who wants to do business with someone that gets so defensive over another person’s decision not to do business at that time? More importantly, why would that person refer you to anyone else that is looking for the product/service that you have to offer with an attitude like that? For most people, it’s easy to get hot under the collar when a buyer is talking bad about a business that you believe in, but always remember the importance of opening those relationships. You can remain strong in your convictions about your business without completely ruining the sale. Just focus on the question or concern and address it with the reasons that you stand behind your product. You can even say something like, “That’s an excellent question.” If they say, it costs too much, then simply say, “I see you’re concerned about value?” Instead of giving off the feeling that you think they are just being cheap. Strive to satisfy their questions with your belief. Remember, if you don’t believe in what you are selling, then stop trying to sell it to others.

Strategy #9 Champion Tip: Maintain an offensive mindset that’s full of energy, excitement, focus and strength. When questions arise, get excited. Stand behind your business product/services and allow your belief to drive you to handle all questions and concerns.

THE ABCs OF LIFE

August 12, 2010 by  
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This week’s article is targeted toward professional marketers in the industry of network marketing. During a workshop this week, I did a special presentation on the ABCs of achieving the top position in life and in business. The ABCs that I spoke of are as follows: A – Attitude/Action, B – Building/Belief, C – Commitment/Caring.

The foundational key to success in life is a positive attitude. We all hear about it, we all talk about it and we all read about, but do we all have positive attitudes? Your attitude can go in three different directions – forward, neutral and backward. Going forward produces a positive attitude, remaining neutral and/or sliding backward result in a negative attitude. You cannot have both a positive and negative attitude! A person with a positive attitude will have “down days,” which are characteristics of a leader. In order to be successful, you must experience frustrations in life that tend to make you a stronger leader with a drive to succeed. Another important component to developing a positive attitude is establishing daily action steps. There are three key ingredients in building a professional business in network marketing or life in general.

1. Reading your WHY card upon arising in the morning and retiring in the evening. The most important force in your life is your WHY, which I speak extensively in my training programs and during seminars. (WHY are you living the life that you live day in and day out) You need to internalize your WHY and develop it into your spirit.

2. Consult with your Mastermind Team. Your Mastermind Team is the first three people that you consult with each and everyday that will ultimately help you achieve your WHY in life.

3. Speak to three new people a day about your business. Those three new people are three new prospects/three new seeds. “Seed time and harvest will not cease.” Those are two principles that will parallel your success in business and mainly in life. Basically what ever you plant you will harvest – positive or negative.

A forward-moving attitude will help you to build a huge business for yourself and have an incredibly successful life. I challenge you this week to read your WHY card, consult your Mastermind Team daily and speak to three new people a day about your business.

ARE YOU FAMOUS OR FOCUSED?

August 2, 2010 by  
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Are you famous or are you focused? Let’s start with “famous”. When people look at you, what do they say that you are famous for? Are you famous for procrastination…negative words…poor time management…What are you famous for? Let me share with you what I am famous for. I am famous for consistent, structured, focused daily strategies and techniques to live a victorious life. I know…that is a pretty strong statement! You see, I would rather be “focused” than famous.

I am focused on success. I am focused on assisting you in achieving you dream and discover the greatness that is inside all of you! Forget about being famous, let’s be focused. Be focused on your dreams…be focused on providing for your family…be focused on building a huge team…be focused on Finding Your Why! Let’s commit today to become focused and start changing people’s lives.

Millions of people world wide watch shows like “Who wants to be a Millionaire” or “Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous”. The interesting thing is that everyone sitting on the couch with a bag of popcorn watching these shows are broke. Why? Because they are famous for sitting back and watching shows on other people being famous. How about we flick the switch in life from famous to focused. Stop dreaming of other people being famous and start being focused on your own destiny! You must laser-focus in on your success and demolish procrastination and create action. Demolish resolutions and create results! Let’s demolish fear and create faith! How is this all possible by simply being focused. How do people become gold medalist, super bowl champions, etc? They take charge of their lives, hire a coach and become focused.

What are you? Who are you? Where are you going? How are you going to get there? More importantly, why are you not focused? Those that know their “Why” are very focused. I am focused on my Why of changing lives of Champions worldwide through my coaching, mentoring, seminars and success library and creating massive success in those Champions lives! Do not allow famous to get in your way of being focused. Make a commitment today to forget fame and become laser-focused! Let’s get focused and know your Why! Let’s go out and impact the world one heart at a time. Focus creates success and Fame creates problems. It’s your decision…become focused and live your dream!!!

HOW TO FINALLY TURN RESOLUTIONS INTO NEW YEAR’S RESULTS REVEALED

July 27, 2010 by  
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Are you tired of making all of those New Year’s resolutions, and then breaking them on January 2nd? Are you ready to learn how to finally turn your New Year’s resolutions into New Year’s results? The key word here is “new”, because you want to create “new” results. You must analyze your old year that has passed and your future, which means do not think “re-run/replay” instead think about forging forward into the New Year. In order to create “New Year” results, you must decide to analyze, develop and implement.

Spend about 60 minutes of uninterrupted time analyzing the last 12 months of your life. Examine exactly what you did over the last 365 days to create the results that you have now. Don’t worry about these results and don’t complain about them either. Simply analyze them and understand that you are exactly where you are today because of your actions over the past year. That’s right, your actions created your results in 2004. Your actions turned into your decisions that produced the results that your are experiencing.

Now, are you satisfied with your results in from last year? If not, then how do you turn your New Year’s resolutions into results? You must implement NEW action steps. New actions steps will create new decisions that will produce your new results. Analyze what you did every day to develop these new action steps. Look at your business. How large is your business? Have you prospected enough? Have you attended enough seminars? Have you invested enough money into personal self development? Are you a member of the motivational club? Have you taken advantage of all that’s available for you to produce the results that you want?

If you are not happy with your results from last year, then just imagine where you will be at the end of this year if you continue to take the same actions and make the same decisions. It doesn’t matter what kind of resolutions you make if you don’t develop NEW daily action steps.

I challenge you to forget about those New Year’s Resolutions; instead, analyze last year’s results then develop and implement New Daily Actions that will lead to New Decisions and produce New Results for your New Year!