17 Highly-Guarded Strategies to Close Every Sale – Strategy #9: An Offensive Mindset Versus a Defensive Mindset (2 of 2)
August 27, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Sales Training
There are many people that I meet at seminars, but many of them never “do business” with me that particular day. I don’t huff and puff about their decision not to invest in my products and services. That’s fine, because I believe in creating long-term relationships. I believe in the near future, they will invest in one of my product or services. Maybe they become a member of the Lifestyle Freedom Club, attend a boot camp or hire me to do a motivational seminar for their company. I handled that initial rejection of my products and services appropriately and welcomed them to tie into my emails, tele-classes, etc., which led to their investment at a later date. Creating long-term relationships despite not closing that initial sale is a huge part of maintaining an offensive mindset.
What if I would have responded with a defensive mindset? “I don’t need their money anyway. I would rather keep my products, because they aren’t going to use them.” The chances of that person tying into my company resources and investing at a later date just flew out the door. Who wants to do business with someone that gets so defensive over another person’s decision not to do business at that time? More importantly, why would that person refer you to anyone else that is looking for the product/service that you have to offer with an attitude like that? For most people, it’s easy to get hot under the collar when a buyer is talking bad about a business that you believe in, but always remember the importance of opening those relationships. You can remain strong in your convictions about your business without completely ruining the sale. Just focus on the question or concern and address it with the reasons that you stand behind your product. You can even say something like, “That’s an excellent question.” If they say, it costs too much, then simply say, “I see you’re concerned about value?” Instead of giving off the feeling that you think they are just being cheap. Strive to satisfy their questions with your belief. Remember, if you don’t believe in what you are selling, then stop trying to sell it to others.
Strategy #9 Champion Tip: Maintain an offensive mindset that’s full of energy, excitement, focus and strength. When questions arise, get excited. Stand behind your business product/services and allow your belief to drive you to handle all questions and concerns.
PASS THE TEST OF TIME
July 28, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Personal Development
The only currency that we all have the same amount of is time. Time is the ultimate currency and how you invest your time will determine your success. In order for you to attain your WHY in life, you need to realize that every minute wasted is currency/money you just lost. Every successful person that you see in life is simply someone who understands the power of waiting through the seasons of harvest time.
“While the earth remaineth, seedtime and harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and winter, and day and night shall not cease.”
“And let us not be weary in well doing; for in due season, we shall reap, if we faint not.”
These two citations express the importance of waiting and being persistent. When you are investing your currency/time correctly, you will reap the rewards.
The following is a very inspirational message that I know you will need on your journey to achieving your WHY in life!
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must – but never quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won if he’d stuck it out;
Stick to your task, though the pace seem slow –
You may succeed with one more blow.
Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt –
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that
YOU MUSN’T QUIT.
- Author Unknown
If you quit today, you’ll never know what lies just around the bend.

