17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Three)

Word # 12 – Release.  Today, I am making a decision to release fear out of my life!  When you make the decision to release fear, indecision and procrastination out of your life, you will experience earth shattering results.  Say it out loud – FEAR GET OUT OF MY LIFE!  Scream it at the top of your lungs and affirm it every day to release the enemy of fear of your life forever.  If your past is holding you back, then reach down and take off the shackles that are holding you back to your past.  Do it!  Take those shackles off your ankles right now and release your negative past that is holding you back from success.  If you think it’s silly to shout out affirmations or physically do something outside of your comfort zone to release something in your life that is holding you back, then you don’t want it bad enough!  That’s right.  I said it.  You don’t want to be free bad enough if you can release yourself from the enemy of fear, doubt, procrastination or even your past.  Who cares what anyone else thinks?  It’s your life.  Now, stand up and release whatever is holding you back in your life!

Word # 13 – Truth. I am receiving only the truth about myself!  Everyone projected in the 2010 Super Bowl that the Colts would win, but they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes in New Orleans – Drew Brees, his teaching, the coach, the atmosphere, and the mindset.  The bottom-line is that the experts were wrong!  They were wrong, because they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes.  Drew Brees could have listened to them and accepted what they were saying as the truth, but he didn’t.  Why?  Because he knew the real truth about himself, his coach and his team.

People try to tell us their side of the truth all the time through their opinions, but it’s important to focus on the truth that you know about yourself and not what someone else thinks. Remember, the center of the word truth is “U.”  You must believe in yourself and associate with other champions that know the real truth about you.  Just like with Drew Brees, the truth will always be revealed no matter what the so-called experts say.

Words # 14 and 15 – Consistently Building.  I am consistently building my belief structure with my Why rollover!  Every morning when you roll out of bed, you roll right into the present.  The past is gone.  The present is today. Get up and open that present with great expectation.  How?  Instead of reaching for the remote control, read your Why Card for the first seven minutes of your day.  It’s called the Why rollover.  Saying your Why out loud right when you get out of bed will predict the rest of your day.  But you can’t just do it one day.  You have to do it consistently every single day to build your belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your Why in life.  Make it a daily habit just like you brush your teeth in the morning.  Your Why rollover should be part of your morning ritual.  You wouldn’t walk out of your house without brushing your teeth or taking a shower so why would you face the world without reading your Why Card?  Consistently building your belief in yourself by reading your Why every morning will radically change your daily results.

Word # 16 – Guarantee.  My habits guarantee my success!  My wife is an attorney so using the word guarantee in my teachings drives her crazy. However, I absolutely guarantee that your habits will predict your level of success in life!  How? Because I have seen in thousands of times in my life and the lives of my students. If your habits consist of hanging out with naysayers, drinking at the local bar every night and watching garbage television, then how can you expect to achieve your goals in life?  97% of people are dead or dead broke by the age of 65.  Why? Their habits took complete control of their lives.  What about the other 3%?  Now, those are the champions that realized that their daily habits will determine if they achieve their goals and dreams.  They made the decision to commit to positive daily habits like reading their Why Card, listening to motivational teachings, exercising to keep physically fit, eating right to stay healthy, associating with people that empowering them, etc.  They basically said Enough is Enough with the Bad Habits! Haven’t you had enough! Isn’t it time to make a change? I’ll say it again.  Your habits will guarantee your level of success – good or bad.  It’s completely your choice.

Word # 17 – Finish. I will finish my success journey!  Make a decision today to commit to the two to five year success journey and finish your success journey.  97% of people quit before they finish!  Sadly, I’ve personally witnessed hundreds of people quit on their success journey.  They refused to tough it out and finish what they started.  When it got hard, they quit!  If they would have just hung on that last mile, they would have realized that true prosperity was right around the next corner. That’s not you!  You have committed to finish what you’ve started and achieve your Why in life.  Keep focused no matter what adversity you face.  Success is your destiny and you will cross the finish line!

I ask you to commit to speaking these words every day to drive fear out of your life and achieve your ultimate Why.  As a special bonus, I want to give you my 210 affirmations to shout out loudly every single day – www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com/words.  Remember, outwardly spoken words create miracles!  It’s time for your miracle!

Feel free to email our team anytime at team@lifestylefreedomclub.com.  We love to hear your stories and want to know how these words have radically changed your life.  We believe in YOU Champion!

10 Life Lessons On How To Find Your Why NOW & Achieve Ultimate Success – Lesson 4 (part 3)

Getting Beyond Security

I was introduced to a vehicle that enabled my Why to finally come alive. I listened to a woman speak about a business and a vehicle – Network Marketing. I’ll never forget her words. She said, “If you work hard, if you work smart, if you follow a system, you will achieve success.”

She also said that I could achieve these three magical words – time, freedom and wealth. That’s when I saw the possibility that even I could do what I wanted to do, when I wanted to do it and with whom I wanted to do it with. Within seven years of hearing her speak those words of power into my life, I created a very successful business and semi-retired to South Florida.

Yes! I grabbed those words that created the possibility that I could succeed like a drowning man grabbing a life preserver. I said to myself, “I want to empower people. I want to help people realize that they can do whatever they want to do in life.” For the first time in my life, I was able to move beyond the comfort zone of security. I realized that my security of working behind the scenes at the art gallery had allowed my stuttering to control me and my life. Security will make you complacent. It will control you and ultimately destroy you. If you’re secure right now in your job, you could be in the process of demolishing your future success. Let me ask you a question, if you didn’t have to go out and earn money to pay your bills, what would you do? That’s right; if every bill was paid and you had enough money in the bank for the rest of your life, what would you be doing? Take a second and write down your answer. Now, that is your Why! I will come back to that later, but let me tell you what happened when I went home that night from the event. I arrived home to my parent’s house about 11:30pm, and I just started crying. Why? Because I found a way out! I found the actual vehicle that would allow me to achieve my dreams. I could build a business, set myself free and be able to go out and speak to people. I could tell others that it is possible to achieve success, and it is okay to have dreams. That’s the night my life and my world changed. Then, I was introduced to personal development through the classic book, “Think and Grow Rich” by Napoleon Hill. If you don’t have that book, then invest in yourself and go buy it. Personal development and the industry of Network Marketing opened my eyes to opportunities that I never knew existed or were possible for even me to achieve.

I woke up the next morning and was on my way to the gym at 5:30am. As I was driving to my health club I thought to myself, “I truly don’t understand yet how I’m going to do this. I don’t know this business. I don’t know the system. I don’t know anything”, but what I did know was that someone told me I could do it and I was willing to listen to that person. I was willing to be become success-driven and listen to people that could and would help me become successful and achieve my Why. To do that meant leaving the comfortable and complacent nest of security. You will never fly, and you will never become a success maniac if you remain in the nest.

CONQUER YOUR FEAR OF PUBLIC SPEAKING

We all know that being in the public eye is not only a huge part of running a business but also a key aspect to being taken seriously as a professional in Network Marketing, Sales, Corporate Relations, etc. Unfortunately, the fear of public speaking can make or break our success in life.

Conquering the FEAR that most people experience when they speak in front of others is most easily understood in four steps that just happen to coincide with the actual letters in the word itself.

F – Fight/Flight
E – Excitement
A – Adrenaline Rush
R – Rehearse

F – Fight/Flight
A person’s initial response to an unfamiliar situation is either fight or flight. If you choose flight, then you are basically saying, “I’m out of here”. You run from being pulled out of your comfort zone and refuse the idea of change. People that seek success and aren’t afraid of confronting their fears usually make the other choice…FIGHT! They recognize that they are outside of their comfort zone and are willing to face those fears head on. Yes, it is very scary but don’t let fear take control by running away from your dreams!

E – Excitement
When you make the decision to walk in front of an audience and open your heart up to a bunch of strangers, you are excited and eager to forge forward on your journey. The realization of being personally responsible for the initiation of your own dream and acting on that dream is so exciting that it is overwhelming for the human body. So, what happens next?

A – Adrenaline Rush. You made the choice to fight your fear of public speaking, you’re excited about this choice and now your adrenaline begins to rush throughout your entire body. Your knees begin to knock, your hands shake, your skin becomes clammy and worst of all…YOU CAN’T BREATHE! An adrenaline rush will cause you to second guess your choice of fight, but don’t give into those negative emotions.

R – Rehearse. The last and most important step in conquering your fear of public speaking is to rehearse. You must do it over and over and over again until you are comfortable in your new environment, you deliver an outstanding presentation, and you embrace your audience like you’ve known them for years. Rehearsal is the step that will determine the quality of your public speaking.