17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Three)
November 12, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Motivation, Personal Development, Success
Word # 12 – Release. Today, I am making a decision to release fear out of my life! When you make the decision to release fear, indecision and procrastination out of your life, you will experience earth shattering results. Say it out loud – FEAR GET OUT OF MY LIFE! Scream it at the top of your lungs and affirm it every day to release the enemy of fear of your life forever. If your past is holding you back, then reach down and take off the shackles that are holding you back to your past. Do it! Take those shackles off your ankles right now and release your negative past that is holding you back from success. If you think it’s silly to shout out affirmations or physically do something outside of your comfort zone to release something in your life that is holding you back, then you don’t want it bad enough! That’s right. I said it. You don’t want to be free bad enough if you can release yourself from the enemy of fear, doubt, procrastination or even your past. Who cares what anyone else thinks? It’s your life. Now, stand up and release whatever is holding you back in your life!
Word # 13 – Truth. I am receiving only the truth about myself! Everyone projected in the 2010 Super Bowl that the Colts would win, but they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes in New Orleans – Drew Brees, his teaching, the coach, the atmosphere, and the mindset. The bottom-line is that the experts were wrong! They were wrong, because they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes. Drew Brees could have listened to them and accepted what they were saying as the truth, but he didn’t. Why? Because he knew the real truth about himself, his coach and his team.
People try to tell us their side of the truth all the time through their opinions, but it’s important to focus on the truth that you know about yourself and not what someone else thinks. Remember, the center of the word truth is “U.” You must believe in yourself and associate with other champions that know the real truth about you. Just like with Drew Brees, the truth will always be revealed no matter what the so-called experts say.
Words # 14 and 15 – Consistently Building. I am consistently building my belief structure with my Why rollover! Every morning when you roll out of bed, you roll right into the present. The past is gone. The present is today. Get up and open that present with great expectation. How? Instead of reaching for the remote control, read your Why Card for the first seven minutes of your day. It’s called the Why rollover. Saying your Why out loud right when you get out of bed will predict the rest of your day. But you can’t just do it one day. You have to do it consistently every single day to build your belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your Why in life. Make it a daily habit just like you brush your teeth in the morning. Your Why rollover should be part of your morning ritual. You wouldn’t walk out of your house without brushing your teeth or taking a shower so why would you face the world without reading your Why Card? Consistently building your belief in yourself by reading your Why every morning will radically change your daily results.
Word # 16 – Guarantee. My habits guarantee my success! My wife is an attorney so using the word guarantee in my teachings drives her crazy. However, I absolutely guarantee that your habits will predict your level of success in life! How? Because I have seen in thousands of times in my life and the lives of my students. If your habits consist of hanging out with naysayers, drinking at the local bar every night and watching garbage television, then how can you expect to achieve your goals in life? 97% of people are dead or dead broke by the age of 65. Why? Their habits took complete control of their lives. What about the other 3%? Now, those are the champions that realized that their daily habits will determine if they achieve their goals and dreams. They made the decision to commit to positive daily habits like reading their Why Card, listening to motivational teachings, exercising to keep physically fit, eating right to stay healthy, associating with people that empowering them, etc. They basically said Enough is Enough with the Bad Habits! Haven’t you had enough! Isn’t it time to make a change? I’ll say it again. Your habits will guarantee your level of success – good or bad. It’s completely your choice.
Word # 17 – Finish. I will finish my success journey! Make a decision today to commit to the two to five year success journey and finish your success journey. 97% of people quit before they finish! Sadly, I’ve personally witnessed hundreds of people quit on their success journey. They refused to tough it out and finish what they started. When it got hard, they quit! If they would have just hung on that last mile, they would have realized that true prosperity was right around the next corner. That’s not you! You have committed to finish what you’ve started and achieve your Why in life. Keep focused no matter what adversity you face. Success is your destiny and you will cross the finish line!
I ask you to commit to speaking these words every day to drive fear out of your life and achieve your ultimate Why. As a special bonus, I want to give you my 210 affirmations to shout out loudly every single day – www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com/words. Remember, outwardly spoken words create miracles! It’s time for your miracle!
Feel free to email our team anytime at team@lifestylefreedomclub.com. We love to hear your stories and want to know how these words have radically changed your life. We believe in YOU Champion!
17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Two)
November 10, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Motivation, Personal Development, Success
I AM A HABIT (Part One)
August 6, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Success
H-A-B-I-T…When 95% of people hear this word, a
negative thought pops up in their minds, because
most people think of a habit being negative. The
secret to your future lies in your daily habits so
ask yourself right now, “Are my habits today going
to help me achieve my WHY in life?”
I received the following excerpt from a very dear
friend of mine and felt that it is definitely the
best explanation of a habit that I have ever heard:
I am your constant companion.
I am your greatest helper or your heaviest burden.
I will push you onward or drag you down to failure.
I am completely at your command.
Half the things you do, you might just as well turn
over to me,and I will be able to do them quickly and
correctly.
I am easily managed; you must merely be firm with me.
Show me exactly how you want something done,
and after a few lessons I will do it automatically.
I am the servant of all great men.
And, alas, of all failures as well.
Those who are great, I have made great.
Those who are failures, I have made failures.
I am not a machine, though I work with all the
precision of a machine.Plus, the intelligence of a man.
You may run me for profit, or run me for ruin;
it makes no difference to me.
Take me, train me, be firm with me and I will
put the world at your feet.
Be easy with me, and I will destroy you.
Who am I?
I am a HABIT!
- Author Unknown
A FEW WORDS OF APPRECIATION
August 5, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Success
This week I am going to write about one of the most powerful yet simple “pebbles of action” towards building your mountain of success. This one action step will separate you from the crowd and empower you to develop a network of people, who have a high regard of respect for you. The action is simply using a few words of appreciation. The words “thank you” are simple, but at the same time extremely powerful!
I wrote in a past issue that the difference between ordinary and EXTRAordinary is just a little bit of EXTRA. Well, as I meet people and do business, I always make an extra-effort to say “thank you” by way of e-mail, voicemail or send a card in the mail. People always comment how much they appreciated the “thank you”. In these days of such hectic schedules and people running all over the place and trying to get ahead, sometimes we forget the simplest things in life are the most powerful and rewarding. You need to think to yourself about a time someone sent you a thank you and how much it meant to you. Always remember to “Do unto others as you would have done unto you!”
After you finish a meeting make a note to yourself to send a timely thank-you. Simple actions reap big rewards! I personally like to leave a voicemail message or send an e-mail message with the subject line “Thank You”. Life is a journey and as you progress, the key is to establish a reputation as one who appreciates others. People will always feel comfortable to introduce you to one of their contacts knowing your past pattern has been one of professionalism and respect. You need to realize that your most notable achievements in life will usually be the result of someone introducing you to one of his or her contacts.
From this day forward, always take a little pebble of action in order to build your mountain of success! “Thank you” is a fantastic place to start! I will start the ball rolling by thanking YOU, the readers of this manual. I truly appreciate your time and testimonials about how we have been able to help in your mission in Life.
PREJUDGING WILL COST YOU YOUR BUSINESS
August 4, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Success
You know when you want to turn your car on, you have to put the key in the ignition, put the car in drive, press the gas and go. Nothing changes…You press the gas, You hit the brake, You stop at red lights, You forge forward…nothing changes!
You stay consistent, because you can’t change your car based upon the road your on.
You can’t prejudge and say “I’m not going to bring my shocks today, because I don’t
need them on this particular road, or I don’t need my blinker, because I’m only going to
go straight.”
I live in Florida, where everything is straight and flat, but I still can’t say
“I don’t need my blinkers, shocks or brakes.” I can’t do that…I can’t pre-judge my
path…it’s an impossible feat!
What does this have to do with becoming a successful business builder? Simply,
STOP Prejudging! Again, STOP Prejudging. 95% of people in direct sales and marketing fail, and here’s the reason why. They “Prejudge” their Prospects and change their presentations to better fit that particular prospect. Here’s an example:
“Oh, he’s just a 24 year old stuttering kid that will never make it in the
industry so I’ll just change the presentation and make it a little shorter. No
need to waste my time.”
On the flip side of that, most people will say this to themselves:
“I’m sitting down with a CEO of a company today so I’ve got to take out the part on money, because he has plenty.”
It doesn’t matter who your prospect is…You cannot prejudge him/her and change your presentation! As you know that 24 year old stutterer was me, and I would have earned you seven figures if you wouldn’t have prejudged me.
The challenge for most business builders is prejudging their prospects based
on his/her credentials, looks, past, etc. I believe each and every person is a Miracle…
I believe every single business builder should be a seven figure earner if they choose to be. DO NOT PREJUDGE!
Show your plan and your business to each prospect the very same way.
Don’t change it for anyone! It’s the same way you drive your car. You always bring your blinker, you shocks, your brakes…every time you drive your car! You can’t prejudge conditions no matter the circumstance. Never, ever prejudge, and I guarantee you that you will become a seven figure earner and build a powerhouse business.

