17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Three)
November 12, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Motivation, Personal Development, Success
Word # 12 – Release. Today, I am making a decision to release fear out of my life! When you make the decision to release fear, indecision and procrastination out of your life, you will experience earth shattering results. Say it out loud – FEAR GET OUT OF MY LIFE! Scream it at the top of your lungs and affirm it every day to release the enemy of fear of your life forever. If your past is holding you back, then reach down and take off the shackles that are holding you back to your past. Do it! Take those shackles off your ankles right now and release your negative past that is holding you back from success. If you think it’s silly to shout out affirmations or physically do something outside of your comfort zone to release something in your life that is holding you back, then you don’t want it bad enough! That’s right. I said it. You don’t want to be free bad enough if you can release yourself from the enemy of fear, doubt, procrastination or even your past. Who cares what anyone else thinks? It’s your life. Now, stand up and release whatever is holding you back in your life!
Word # 13 – Truth. I am receiving only the truth about myself! Everyone projected in the 2010 Super Bowl that the Colts would win, but they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes in New Orleans – Drew Brees, his teaching, the coach, the atmosphere, and the mindset. The bottom-line is that the experts were wrong! They were wrong, because they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes. Drew Brees could have listened to them and accepted what they were saying as the truth, but he didn’t. Why? Because he knew the real truth about himself, his coach and his team.
People try to tell us their side of the truth all the time through their opinions, but it’s important to focus on the truth that you know about yourself and not what someone else thinks. Remember, the center of the word truth is “U.” You must believe in yourself and associate with other champions that know the real truth about you. Just like with Drew Brees, the truth will always be revealed no matter what the so-called experts say.
Words # 14 and 15 – Consistently Building. I am consistently building my belief structure with my Why rollover! Every morning when you roll out of bed, you roll right into the present. The past is gone. The present is today. Get up and open that present with great expectation. How? Instead of reaching for the remote control, read your Why Card for the first seven minutes of your day. It’s called the Why rollover. Saying your Why out loud right when you get out of bed will predict the rest of your day. But you can’t just do it one day. You have to do it consistently every single day to build your belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your Why in life. Make it a daily habit just like you brush your teeth in the morning. Your Why rollover should be part of your morning ritual. You wouldn’t walk out of your house without brushing your teeth or taking a shower so why would you face the world without reading your Why Card? Consistently building your belief in yourself by reading your Why every morning will radically change your daily results.
Word # 16 – Guarantee. My habits guarantee my success! My wife is an attorney so using the word guarantee in my teachings drives her crazy. However, I absolutely guarantee that your habits will predict your level of success in life! How? Because I have seen in thousands of times in my life and the lives of my students. If your habits consist of hanging out with naysayers, drinking at the local bar every night and watching garbage television, then how can you expect to achieve your goals in life? 97% of people are dead or dead broke by the age of 65. Why? Their habits took complete control of their lives. What about the other 3%? Now, those are the champions that realized that their daily habits will determine if they achieve their goals and dreams. They made the decision to commit to positive daily habits like reading their Why Card, listening to motivational teachings, exercising to keep physically fit, eating right to stay healthy, associating with people that empowering them, etc. They basically said Enough is Enough with the Bad Habits! Haven’t you had enough! Isn’t it time to make a change? I’ll say it again. Your habits will guarantee your level of success – good or bad. It’s completely your choice.
Word # 17 – Finish. I will finish my success journey! Make a decision today to commit to the two to five year success journey and finish your success journey. 97% of people quit before they finish! Sadly, I’ve personally witnessed hundreds of people quit on their success journey. They refused to tough it out and finish what they started. When it got hard, they quit! If they would have just hung on that last mile, they would have realized that true prosperity was right around the next corner. That’s not you! You have committed to finish what you’ve started and achieve your Why in life. Keep focused no matter what adversity you face. Success is your destiny and you will cross the finish line!
I ask you to commit to speaking these words every day to drive fear out of your life and achieve your ultimate Why. As a special bonus, I want to give you my 210 affirmations to shout out loudly every single day – www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com/words. Remember, outwardly spoken words create miracles! It’s time for your miracle!
Feel free to email our team anytime at team@lifestylefreedomclub.com. We love to hear your stories and want to know how these words have radically changed your life. We believe in YOU Champion!
17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Two)
November 10, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Motivation, Personal Development, Success
17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part One)
November 3, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Motivation, Personal Development
Let’s talk about words. It’s important to understand that the words that you speak predict your results. If you say that you are depressed, then you will reap those results. If you say that you are a champion, then your results will be life-changing. You automatically take ownership of your words, and things start to occur in your life because of those words – good or bad.
Now, I’m going to give you seventeen focused words that will radically change your results and terminate fear out of your life forever.
# 1 – Committed. I am committed to do whatever it takes for as long as it takes to be a Why Warrior. However, 97% of people are not committed to anything in life. Committed – notice it’s past tense. A commitment is final decision about what you are willing to do to achieve some type of goal or objective. It’s not something that you just think about and put off for another day. When you make a commitment, it’s finished. There’s no turning back. Once you’ve made the decision to be committed to something, your commitment is represented in your action steps, associations, and schedule. What are you doing every day to honor that commitment? Are the people that you associate with motivating you to stick to your commitment? Does your daily schedule reflect your commitment? If you answered no to any of those questions, then you are simply not truly committed.
Word # 2 – Confidence. I am walking strong with confidence as a faithful Why Warrior champion. When someone walks in confidence, you can feel it when they walk in the room and see it in their overall body posture. Like when I take the stage at an event, I’m confident in my abilities as a speaker that I will change lives through my message. Confidence is fully believing what you already know that you are capable of doing. When you make a decision to implement confidence in every area of your life, your results will explode, and people will take notice of the change. Confidence also gets rid of fear instantly and provides you with the faith that you need to achieve your Why in life.
Word # 3 – Pulverize. This word is a powerful! I pulverize the enemy of fear now with my outwardly spoken words. Outwardly spoken words instantly detonate inward fear. For example, when you speak affirmations like “I am a fired up champion!” Fear runs and faith stands. Faith filled words pulverize fear! You’ve got to make a mental decision to absolutely pulverize the enemy of fear now by speaking empowering words over your life every day. Remember, your words determine your results so take the needed action to predict your own future with your words and pulverize the enemy of fear!
Word # 4 – Fighter. I’m a faith fighter for my Why. When you get serious about achieving your Why in life, you become a fighter. No, not a physical fighter, but you are willing to stand up to the enemy that is trying to stop you. Fear fights every single day to hold you back from your Why so you’ve got to learn to fight back. How? Start controlling what comes out of your mouth and into your eyes and ears. Fear is constantly feeding you through television, radio, billboards, and other forms of media. However, fear really attacks through our friends, family, and coworkers. It’s amazing how one little word of discouragement about your Why will cause you to completely give up. I believe we need to fight for our Why no matter what anything or anyone else says. Become a fighter today and stand up for your Why!
Word # 5 – Extraordinary. I’m an extraordinary champion. The only difference between being extraordinary and ordinary is that little bit of extra. Average people speak ordinary words. Ordinary people get ordinary results. Fear makes us remain ordinary in every area of life – health, decision, words, family, finances, happiness, etc. You are extraordinary! God did not make a mistake with you. You are an extraordinary champion! Remember that and go the extra mile in your life to become truly extraordinary.
Watch for Part Two of this article to find out the rest of the 17 Words to Terminate Fear NOW!
Feel free to email our team anytime at team @ lifestylefreedomclub.com. We love to hear your stories and want to know how these words have radically changed your life.
We believe in YOU Champion!
John Di Lemme
TEAR UP YOUR “TO DO” LISTS
July 29, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Personal Development
Most of you have those tedious “To Do” list that you create in an effort to get more things done in your day. But let’s take time to really look at your “To Do” list. The actual words “To Do” have a negative connotation, and when you look at that list on a daily basis you think to yourself, “I MUST get this stuff done!”. It’s like meeting a deadline on a daily basis. You absolutely dread it! You should just call it your “To Don’t” list, because it’s not something that you even look forward to doing.
So, what kinds of things are on these “To Do” list?
1. Go to the gym
2. Take the kids to baseball practice
3. Make (3) new contacts for my business
4. Pick-up the laundry
5. Coaching session w/John Di Lemme
6. Tele-Class at 8:30pm
7. Book flights for upcoming seminar
That’s right, this is an example of the infamous “To Do” list that you write out every day, and you drive yourself crazy trying to get everything done. Then at the end of the day, you wad up your list and throw it away. No matter if you finished everything or not. Does this make sense? No. Why should you torture yourself by making a list of things that will ultimately hang over your head all day long. Plus, most of the time the things on your “To Do” list are important to you and you should feel a sense of accomplishment after you complete them.
I know that you are saying to yourself, “John, I have to write things down or I won’t do them, and these things are important.” I agree with you 100%, but there is another way…something you won’t hate and resent doing on a daily basis. You must make this list important to you and feel good about yourself when you complete it or even most of it.
Develop a Champion Checklist! Doesn’t that sound better and more powerful? How would you feel at the end of your day if you accomplished the majority of things on your “Champion Checklist”? Here’s another tip. Don’t throw it away day after day after day. Keep your Champion Checklist in a journal or simply a notebook. This will allow you to look back at your lists at the end of the week and see all of the things that you achieved. On the other hand, it will also act as your guide to things that you can do better such as time management.
My challenge for you today is to commit to tearing up your “To Do” list and replace it with a “Champion Checklist”. Will you do it or will you continue to begin everyday staring at a list that haunts you all day long? It’s up to you! This simple change will produce drastic results for you.
PASS THE TEST OF TIME
July 28, 2010 by John Di Lemme
Filed under Personal Development
The only currency that we all have the same amount of is time. Time is the ultimate currency and how you invest your time will determine your success. In order for you to attain your WHY in life, you need to realize that every minute wasted is currency/money you just lost. Every successful person that you see in life is simply someone who understands the power of waiting through the seasons of harvest time.
“While the earth remaineth, seedtime and harvest, and cold and heat, and summer and winter, and day and night shall not cease.”
“And let us not be weary in well doing; for in due season, we shall reap, if we faint not.”
These two citations express the importance of waiting and being persistent. When you are investing your currency/time correctly, you will reap the rewards.
The following is a very inspirational message that I know you will need on your journey to achieving your WHY in life!
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you’re trudging seems all uphill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest if you must – but never quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As every one of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won if he’d stuck it out;
Stick to your task, though the pace seem slow –
You may succeed with one more blow.
Success is failure turned inside out –
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt –
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit –
It’s when things seem worst that
YOU MUSN’T QUIT.
- Author Unknown
If you quit today, you’ll never know what lies just around the bend.

