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October 31, 2011 by  
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August 6, 2011 by  
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How to Make Successful New Year’s Resolutions
John Di Lemme

January 22, 2011 by  
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As 2011 rolls around and we prepare for a new year, the habit of making New Year’s resolutions comes to the forefront. This past week, I asked my students to list what they believe to be the top three New Year resolutions for society in general. To no surprise, the top three were lose weight, get out of debt and work out more. While the intentions behind the resolutions are good, the likelihood that the resolutions will be achieved is not so great.

According to general statistics, approximately 45% of adult Americans make New Year resolutions every year. Unfortunately, about 97% of the resolutions are never completely fulfilled. Why? Most resolutions are unrealistic and there is no action behind the resolution. Someone can say that they want to get out of debt all day long, but if they continue to go on shopping sprees, then it is not going to happen. Similarly, a person can say that they are going to lose weight, but if they don’t exercise and continue to eat junk, then no change will occur.

The base word of resolution is resolute, which means firmly resolved. So basically when you set New Year’s resolutions, you are saying that losing weight, getting out of debt, etc. will be firmly resolved within the next twelve months. You aren’t saying how it will be fully resolved or what commitment you will make to fully resolve the issue. It’s like a building with no foundation. It will eventually crumble, because there’s nothing holding it up. There’s no commitment or action behind the resolution. Furthermore, most of the things that you are saying will be fully resolved took you longer than twelve months to create so why limit yourself to fully resolving those things in a twelve month window.

Instead of making resolutions that you will likely not achieve, set goals with a detailed list of action steps that will assist you in successfully achieving those goals. Here are some examples for you:

Goal: Lose weight and exercise more
Action Steps: Join gym, exercise 3x per week, eat more fruits/veggies, throw out all junk food in the house

Goal: Spend more time with family
Action Steps: Make a date with your family every week and do something special. (special does not mean costly)

Goal: Increase personal development time
Action Steps: Schedule at least fifteen minutes per day for reading an inspirational book, listening to motivational CDs, etc. Increase the amount of time after committing to the fifteen minutes per day and making it one of your daily habits.

Now, doesn’t that make more sense than simply making a New Year’s resolution and never achieving it? Someone once said, “A New Year’s resolution is something that goes in one year and out the other.” Your goals and dreams are worth more than that, right? Stop treating them like a trend that in one day and out the next. Make a commitment to yourself and take the daily action needed to achieve your goals and dreams. Now, that’s a real reason to put on the party hats, blow the whistles and scream Happy New Year!

© John Di Lemme
www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com

5 Decisions to Shred Fear Out of Your Life

January 22, 2011 by  
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I have personally witnessed thousands of people worldwide imprisoned by fear.? They are trapped behind the bars of not being worthy of success and shackled to their past mistakes. Are you one of those prisoners? ?Have you been wrongly convicted and given a life sentence by the enemy of fear?? It??s time for you to break free!? How can you possibly break through the bondage that has kept you chained down and unable to move forward in years?? Make a decision.? That??s right.? You must make the decision that you will no longer be a slave to fear.

The original Hebrew root of the word ??decision?? means to cut off and get rid of.? It??s done. It??s finished.? No more. It??s decision time!? Take a deep breath and get ready to change your life with these five decisions that will shred fear out of your life.

Decision #1: Make the Shift

In the movie, ??Facing the Giants??, the coach cares enough about one of his players to get in his face and confront him about his fear. He sees that the player has the gift of leadership, but is wasting it.? The coach pushes the player and makes him go to a level where he??s never been.? He??s got to see beyond where he??s been by doing something that he??s never done.? At that point, the shift happens??the shift from the past to the present??from where he??s been to where he wants to go now.

A shift gets developed when you??re focused.? Lack of focus will kill your dreams! When you make that shift and get laser-focused, it??s guaranteed that you will achieve your goals and dreams.? Unfortunately, the biggest distractions in our lives that cause us to lose focus are other people.? These people don??t believe in you or your dream.? They are insecure dream stealers that won??t take the action for that shift in life to happen.? There??s only one thing to do when you are surrounded by these types of people??get away!? If they are family or close friends, then it??s time to love them, leave them and show them.? Let them know that you love them but you have to take time for yourself to achieve your dreams and then your action that you show them in pursuit of your goals and dreams will greatly change how they see you.? What happens next?? The shift!

Decision #2: Take Ownership of Your Why

One of the top things that you must do to get fear out of your life is take ownership of your Why, which is your ultimate purpose. It??s the reason you get out of bed every day.? When you take ownership of your Why, you own it no matter what happens, no matter what occurs each and every day. It??s your Why and nobody can take that from you!? Your Why is the insurance that backs up your goals and dreams. There??s no way that you can give up on your daily quest to achieve your goals and dreams if have taken full ownership of your Why.

You have to protect your Why, because it??s yours and you own it.? If someone walked into your home and started taking your valuables, I have no doubt that you would stop them, because it??s your stuff!? You own it!? However, why do most people allow the naysayers to steal your Why on a daily basis?? It??s simple.? They haven??t taken true ownership of their Why in life.? You have to fight for your Why like you would fight for your belongings. If you have someone in your life trying to take your Why away from you, the get rid of them.? Like I said before, love them, leave them and show them.? It??s your Why so take some action to protect it!

Decision #3: Make Your Pledge

A pledge is a declaration, a solemn vow.? ? It??s your responsibility to make a pledge to yourself and your Why to be the very best that you can get every single day.? When you make a declaration to yourself and everyone around you that you will not give up on your Why, fear will flee!? There??s no room for fear if you are truly committed to your Why!

That??s right.? I said a commitment! Your pledge is a formal commitment.? It doesn??t waiver or falter during the tough times.? Your pledge causes you to lead by example with your attitude, words, ethics, and values.? Your pledge is the driving force behind your Why.? It pushes you and serves as a constant reminder about your commitment.

With the confrontation and resistance that constantly bombard us in society, your pledge will be challenged.? You will be pressured to give up, because the world says that your pledge is not realistic. What do you do? When you get pushed, push back hard and speak your Why in the face of the enemy.? You have made pledge, a vow, to your Why and you must refuse to let anyone cause you to doubt it.? Remember, you??ve made the shift in your life to go to the next level, you??ve taken ownership of your Why, and now your pledge to your Why is in place.? So, what??s next?

Decision #4: Build Your Mastermind Team

Your mastermind team is your support system.? They empower you to prosper in every area of your life no matter what obstacles stand in your way or the adversity that you face. Now, close your eyes and visualize who is on your mastermind team.? Does that image make you smile or does it cause you to realize why you are failing in various areas of your life?

If the people on your mastermind team do not add value you to your life and encourage you to go after your dreams, then it??s time for a change.? An unmotivated, discouraging mastermind team will ruin your chances of ever achieving your ultimate Why in life.? These types of people are selfish and their motives are very different than yours. Fear will constantly consume you if you continue to allow these people to negatively affect your life.

What if you have no one in your closest circle of influence that you would ask to be on your mastermind team? Well, it??s time for you to venture outside of that circle and meet some new people that have similar goals and dreams. The Lifestyle Freedom Club is the #1 success and motivation club in the world, and the members are motivated champions just like you!? Check out this amazing place to build your mastermind team at www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com.? No fear exists in this club!

Decision #5: Create a Solid Foundation

When a house is built, a lot of time is spent laying the foundation.? If the foundation is not solid, then the house will eventually crumble.? Similarly, you cannot achieve your Why in life without a solid foundation of commitment.? Your Why will fall apart and become unachievable if you are not seriously committed.

Imagine your commitment as the foundation of your Why house.? The windows are your daily action steps, the walls are your habits, the roof consists of your mastermind team, and so on.? Do you realize how easily this entire structure will fail if your commitment is shaky?? It might be stable for a while but it will eventually fall down around you.

You also strengthen your foundation by continuing to grow your roots deeper and deeper.? Your roots are developed by immersing yourself in personal development ? listening to motivational CDs, reading inspirational books, etc.? Your belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your Why will skyrocket when you create that daily habit of learning.? As your belief builds, your roots grow and your foundation becomes more solid.

I??m often asked if it??s okay to take some time off.? When you stop your daily success habits and take a break from your personal development, cracks will start to develop in your foundation.? Even the slightest little crack will allow the weed of fear to sprout through and endanger your Why.? If you are truly committed to the achievement of your Why in life, then you should absolutely no desire to take a break from your success journey.

Now, let??s recap??

Decision #1: Make the Shift

Decision #2: Take Ownership of Your Why

Decision #3: Make Your Pledge

Decision #4: Build Your Mastermind Team

Decision #5: Create a Solid Foundation

Now, it??s your turn!? Take action today and make these five decisions to get rid of the fear that is haunting you and preventing you from going forward in life.? Don??t let the enemy of fear win.? You are a Champion and you can defeat fear!

17 Focused Words to Terminate Fear NOW (Part Three)

November 12, 2010 by  
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Word # 12 – Release.  Today, I am making a decision to release fear out of my life!  When you make the decision to release fear, indecision and procrastination out of your life, you will experience earth shattering results.  Say it out loud – FEAR GET OUT OF MY LIFE!  Scream it at the top of your lungs and affirm it every day to release the enemy of fear of your life forever.  If your past is holding you back, then reach down and take off the shackles that are holding you back to your past.  Do it!  Take those shackles off your ankles right now and release your negative past that is holding you back from success.  If you think it’s silly to shout out affirmations or physically do something outside of your comfort zone to release something in your life that is holding you back, then you don’t want it bad enough!  That’s right.  I said it.  You don’t want to be free bad enough if you can release yourself from the enemy of fear, doubt, procrastination or even your past.  Who cares what anyone else thinks?  It’s your life.  Now, stand up and release whatever is holding you back in your life!

Word # 13 – Truth. I am receiving only the truth about myself!  Everyone projected in the 2010 Super Bowl that the Colts would win, but they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes in New Orleans – Drew Brees, his teaching, the coach, the atmosphere, and the mindset.  The bottom-line is that the experts were wrong!  They were wrong, because they didn’t know what was going on behind the scenes.  Drew Brees could have listened to them and accepted what they were saying as the truth, but he didn’t.  Why?  Because he knew the real truth about himself, his coach and his team.

People try to tell us their side of the truth all the time through their opinions, but it’s important to focus on the truth that you know about yourself and not what someone else thinks. Remember, the center of the word truth is “U.”  You must believe in yourself and associate with other champions that know the real truth about you.  Just like with Drew Brees, the truth will always be revealed no matter what the so-called experts say.

Words # 14 and 15 – Consistently Building.  I am consistently building my belief structure with my Why rollover!  Every morning when you roll out of bed, you roll right into the present.  The past is gone.  The present is today. Get up and open that present with great expectation.  How?  Instead of reaching for the remote control, read your Why Card for the first seven minutes of your day.  It’s called the Why rollover.  Saying your Why out loud right when you get out of bed will predict the rest of your day.  But you can’t just do it one day.  You have to do it consistently every single day to build your belief in yourself and your ability to achieve your Why in life.  Make it a daily habit just like you brush your teeth in the morning.  Your Why rollover should be part of your morning ritual.  You wouldn’t walk out of your house without brushing your teeth or taking a shower so why would you face the world without reading your Why Card?  Consistently building your belief in yourself by reading your Why every morning will radically change your daily results.

Word # 16 – Guarantee.  My habits guarantee my success!  My wife is an attorney so using the word guarantee in my teachings drives her crazy. However, I absolutely guarantee that your habits will predict your level of success in life!  How? Because I have seen in thousands of times in my life and the lives of my students. If your habits consist of hanging out with naysayers, drinking at the local bar every night and watching garbage television, then how can you expect to achieve your goals in life?  97% of people are dead or dead broke by the age of 65.  Why? Their habits took complete control of their lives.  What about the other 3%?  Now, those are the champions that realized that their daily habits will determine if they achieve their goals and dreams.  They made the decision to commit to positive daily habits like reading their Why Card, listening to motivational teachings, exercising to keep physically fit, eating right to stay healthy, associating with people that empowering them, etc.  They basically said Enough is Enough with the Bad Habits! Haven’t you had enough! Isn’t it time to make a change? I’ll say it again.  Your habits will guarantee your level of success – good or bad.  It’s completely your choice.

Word # 17 – Finish. I will finish my success journey!  Make a decision today to commit to the two to five year success journey and finish your success journey.  97% of people quit before they finish!  Sadly, I’ve personally witnessed hundreds of people quit on their success journey.  They refused to tough it out and finish what they started.  When it got hard, they quit!  If they would have just hung on that last mile, they would have realized that true prosperity was right around the next corner. That’s not you!  You have committed to finish what you’ve started and achieve your Why in life.  Keep focused no matter what adversity you face.  Success is your destiny and you will cross the finish line!

I ask you to commit to speaking these words every day to drive fear out of your life and achieve your ultimate Why.  As a special bonus, I want to give you my 210 affirmations to shout out loudly every single day – www.LifestyleFreedomClub.com/words.  Remember, outwardly spoken words create miracles!  It’s time for your miracle!

Feel free to email our team anytime at team@lifestylefreedomclub.com.  We love to hear your stories and want to know how these words have radically changed your life.  We believe in YOU Champion!

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